What are mistress cam shows? What can I expect?

[CamBro69]

I have always fantasized about having a Mistress or Master, or Domme, whatever you want to call it.

So I notice a lot of camgirls specialize in being Dommes and Mistresses and will do shows while in character.

I get the basics of dominance and submission, but I'm still shy about what to expect from my mistress.

Anyone know what goes on in one her shows?

 

[ExhiledBeaver]

Mistress shows can be anything really, it just depends on the camgirl's personality and your own desires.

Mistress or Masters, must assume control of you. That's the whole appeal of this arrangement. But within BDSM rules, the submissive, which is you, gets to decide the way you want her to punish you, tease you, and keep you on edge.

The Mistress wants to torture you, but in ways you desire. So it's all about your satisfaction.

Knowing what you want helps a lot.

It's also important to understand what the Mistress specializes in. Like gentle femdom or hard femdom, or even findom (financial domination).

There's all sorts of extreme roleplays you may not be comfortable with, so it's best to discuss your limits and your turns ons on the very first show.

Don't be surprised if she wants to see proof of your submission and trust upfront. So you can ask for what you want, while still showing her proper respect as your Mistress.

Enjoy, explore and have fun learning.

 

[el-capitan]

Interesting post.

I have only had Masters and Doms before, but yes I imagine the dynamic would be similar.

A Dom must make sure you are receptive to his orders and understands how dominance/submission psychology works.

I'd say it's much more of a negotiation than just telling the Dom what you want. The Dom also has limits, as you do.

So you have to find roleplay ideas that you both are into and can perform.

I've had Doms tell me they can't do something I request. And I've had to tell Doms that I don't like something.

There's nothing wrong with discussing these details. The earlier the better, so that you don't have to break character later on.

 

[CamBro69]

Thanks all!

I am really excited about meeting a Mistress in person and I found one interested in me on Alt.com

But I'm nervous so I might want to find a Mistress online first so I can get better prepared.

I think I get the gist of it. I definitely don't want anything too extreme but some light domination and control. Roleplay is good too.